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Scarcity Mindset vs. Abundance Mindset: The Shift That Changed Everything

  • Cassandra Hendriks
  • Apr 18
  • 2 min read

I grew up learning three unspoken rules:🔹 Outta sight, outta mind.🔹 Keep your business out of the streets.🔹 Don’t talk about money.


And for a long time, I followed them.


I kept my head down.I worked hard—but quietly.I didn’t promote what I did, how I did it, or why it mattered.



Because I was taught that privacy was power.That humility meant staying comfortable with complacency.


But one day, I realized: The cost of silence was too high.


The Fear No One Talks About


Everyone talks about the fear of failure.But what about the fear of success?


What happens when the thing you’ve worked for actually works?What if you grow beyond what’s familiar?What if success creates a gap between you and the people you love?


I sat with those questions. And for a while, I let them hold me back.Until I saw someone else take the same opportunity I had been too afraid to claim.And they thrived.


That was my moment of truth.


The Mindset Shift That Changed Everything


I had to reframe my relationship with success:✅ Instead of “Talking about money is taboo” → “Money is a tool for impact.”✅ Instead of “We don’t share our business” → “Visibility creates opportunity.”✅ Instead of “What if I don’t fit in anymore?” → “What if I inspire those around me?”


The Results?


When I let go of scarcity thinking, I unlocked:🚀 More income, because I stopped being afraid to own my worth.🚀 More confidence, because I embraced growth instead of fearing it.🚀 More success, because I stepped into rooms I once felt I didn’t belong in.


Here’s what I know now:


🔹 Silence won’t build your legacy.🔹 Humility isn’t the absence of ambition.🔹 And success doesn’t mean leaving people behind—it means showing them what’s possible.


💡 You are allowed to claim your space. You are allowed to grow. You are allowed to be seen.


Now tell me—what’s a belief about success or money that you used to have—but no longer do? Drop it in the comments. Let’s rewrite the story together. 👇


 
 
 

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